Getting Closer to Making it a Reality
I thought this might help those of you who are looking for advice about starting out in making this hot wife fantasy a reality. I don't have a sure fire way to make your wife go running to fuck the milkman but I do know what worked for us. After a lot of communication...
Our Online Dating Profile
I've noticed a lot of posts from folks new to this kink who want to find single guys/bulls...we've had incredible luck online and thought we'd share our profile since setting one up is pretty much the first step if you looking online for guys. We spell out what we...
Crushes? NRE? Just curious about a few things
Besides the standard celeb crush what’s the take having a crush within the hotwife context? We've been talking about it a lot and the conversation is basically trying to figure out if every guy I chat with/meet is a crush b/c I’m initially interested and attracted to...
Hotwives…What’s the best/worst of where you’ve been….
Just for fun I thought I'd ask you lovely hot wives a question. What are the best and worst of the places you've been to hook up? I've hosted at home, met at hotels and been to a few apartments and houses now and I've seen some things so I want to know what’s stood...
“So I found a bull on Twitter”…and other things I never thought I’d say
Yeah so I joined twitter and found a bull in NY within hours of signing up...never thought I'd be on twitter and really never thought it would turn out to be another place to find bulls (if you're interested in what I'm sure will be ridiculous tweets I'm @curvyhotwife...
The shoe is on the other foot now
Oh OK guys; I think I get this hotwife thing now. Well I understand it a little bit clearer from the ‘husband's’ point of view…and I gotta say I think I like it. My husband has been chatting on kik with a lovely (a beautiful) girl for a little while now. The other...
Quick Hotwife Vent
I left my favorite sunglasses at a guy's place...they're probably still sitting there on his coffee table all these weeks later. Unfortunately it's not worth even trying to get the back from him since 1. I didn't have the best time and 2. He lives a few hours away and...
What do Hotwives look for in a bull?
I want someone who understands and appreciates this kink enough to know that they are an addition to an already amazing sex life. Being respectful of my marriage and my time goes a long way. I love the back and forth of getting to know someone but there’s a fine line...
Re-evaluating my age guidelines…
I'm currently re-evaluating my self-imposed age guidelines and I'd like to hear how everyone else comes up with their numbers. I’m 30 (hubby is 33) and currently my rules is to only meet with guys who are between 26 and 39. There’s no real solid reason why I go...
Sometimes it’s those little moments….
Sometimes they’re fleeting and sometimes they linger…they’re just as intoxicating in the moment as they are in memory. As a hotwife couple we get to experience something behind closed doors that most people don’t ever get to and I couldn't be more grateful for that....
Do things escalate…or is it just me?
Could it be that the novelty of ‘just’ hotwifing wears off so it only makes sense to let the fantasy escalate to another level and try new things, new people, and new acts? We've been doing this hotwife thing for a few months now and we’re thoroughly enjoying...
Before you send me a message read this
It appears that quite a few of you have similar questions and requests that have kind of taken over my inbox. As much as I'd like to respond to each of them and meet all of you that's just not going to happen....so here's a rundown of our deal with this hotwife kink...
Fulfilling Hotwife Fantasies
So how many of you couples, wives & bulls have had fantasies of yours fulfilled since starting to play with this kink? I mean outside of the whole hotwife fantasy itself, obviously. More along the lines of if she's always wanted to fuck a firefighter, cop, baker,...
Sometimes things get awkward for us hotwives…
In the interest of sharing our adventures to help make it a little easier for the next couple trying this out I feel it’s fair to be open about all aspects of this lifestyle. I've touched on the bad, I often talk about the good and now here’s the awkward…because...
Let’s talk about sluts
So I know there's a lot of talk about how hotwifing is sexually liberating for wives and helps to open up her 'repressed sexuality' but I was already open & liberated so I think this kink just pushed me past liberated and right into the slutty slutty deep...
Hotwife Milestone
Milestone may be the wrong word but I couldn't think of one better. One of the benefits that my husband and I liked about this kink is that I would get to experience a variety of guys since I lacked that from being in long term relationships....well it occurred to us...
How has this changed your sex life?
Anyone else around here noticing how much indulging in this kink can change your sex life...for better or worse. Luckily we're on the 'for better' end of the spectrum and I'm really grateful that my husband brought this idea up to me, otherwise we may have never...
Aftershocks of the first time
I've recently posted the story of our first hotwife experience and realized how important having a good introduction really is. Had it not gone as well as it did we would have nope'd outta there right away, no looking back. We were fortunate enough to be contacted by...
Lucky Me
Holy hell, I think I won the hotwife lottery! We've been at it for just a few short months and I can't believe our good fortune so far. It's been such an amazing ride that I just had to share...and by 'share' I mean I intend to brag...blatantly and un-apologetically. ...
Hotwifing and Size Concerns
Part of a message I received read: I don't want her ever thinking I'm inferior to another person in any way, especially not sexually. And maybe his dick isn't better than mine just because it's 3 inches longer. Who knows? I'm not a girl so I'd have no idea what is the...
Mind of a Hotwife: Getting Ready
There's a very specific energy to the day of meeting up with someone that kind of hangs in the air throughout the day and doesn't seem to go away for at least a day or two after. It's a mix of love between my husband and I, excitement of the unknown (for both of us)...
