One of the most common questions I see being asked is where to meet potential partners who are interested or experienced in the hotwife lifestyle. Here’s an attempt to break down the options and offer some resources. *This is not step one when it comes to...

Wrapping it up...

It’s often talked about so I thought I would dig in a bit more and provide some resources towards the STD/STI conversation.Look, we’re all adults who are sexually active so we should all be getting tested. Ladies, talk to your gyno about having an open...

I'm sure every lady here can understand the struggle of trying to find the right thing to wear all the damn time. Date nights I tend to be a lazy bum cause I get overwhelmed trying to find a mix of sexy, cute, comfy, easy access, etc etc. It's exhausting...

about communication...

It would be hard to write a concise update since this hotwife journey has been a long and wild one but since I haven’t written any sort of date night update in awhile I thought I’d start there. It’s actually quite a tame or boring update as I’m still...

Finding a third is easyFInd a quality third is a different story.There’s obviously a lot of posts that bemoan the fact that it’s incredibly hard to find men to join a couple. I promise you, it’s not. Your wife could open your front door and yell that she’s...

I’m selfishly hoping I’m not the only one here but I’ve had my fair share of hotwife ‘misadventures’ along the way. Figured I’d share some of the various embarrassing moments in hopes that 1. You all have some too and 2. Just to share that we all have our...

 I’ve considered sharing some music here for ages but I always overthink it so please excuse the ‘chaos’ that is this playlist. Over the years that I’ve been doing this hotwife thing I’ve created a bunch of little traditions, routines, rituals, whatever...

The number one complaint amongst hotwives. I’ve been enjoying this lifestyle for about 5 years now (little longer maybe) and in that time I’ve been fortunate enough to get to know many hotwives and learn about their successes, failures, joys and...

What I want...I thinkEverything from the initial message to what do do after we meet up, it's all here.  Here’s the general flow of how I choose a guy and what I’d like and what I don’t want to deal with. Let’s just call it another well intentioned rant...

Here's a few of my favorite hotwife captions, memes, gifs and infographics that I think you'll appreciate and/or find helpful.  [gallery type="rectangular" size="medium" link="file"...

If I find it sexy you'll find it here.  I'm often asked what I'm into or what kinds of things turn me on and it's hard to articulate at times but it's easy to give you a visual peek into what I find downright steamy and sexy. Here's a little collection of the images...

Before you watch this clip you'll have to sit and hear me out. You're about to check out a clip from Unfaithful. If you've seen it you're aware that is it not at all a hotwife situation and that everything ends terribly for everyone and if you haven't, omg go and...

The dichotomy of housewife/hotwife has intrigued me from day one and I finally had a little moment where worlds collided. If you know me, you know that some of my favorite things are baking and fucking, so you can imagine I was tickled to be able to...

  So I posted recently looking for a summer fling (that's going swimmingly btw but that's neither here nor there). In chatting with so many new guys I been asked "So, what are you into" or some variation a million times this week. I know it's a perfectly legit...

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I was recently asked by The Cuckold consultant to partake in an interview with him about my hotwife lifestyle. I've been waiting to share it here and now that it's live on his site I'd love for you all to check it out. I was happy to share details of what this...

Taken the morning after a very fun night with a fwb in NYC. I was lucky enough to have a room to myself and a lot of time on my hands. Naturally I invited a friend to join me and we made the most of the night. When I woke up the next day I remembered that it's little...

  There’s a serious lack of hotwife media out there, don’t you agree? So let’s do something about that...kind of. Since I’m always on the lookout for music that speaks to my ‘hotwife mind’ I’d like to collaborate and come up with a playlist befitting those in the...

The vast majority of the conversations I have are positive but every now and then something like this happens. It's an unfortunate reminder that there's a lot of misconceptions about this hotwife fantasy, about me and about how most couples navigate this kink. I...

I’m not a fan of people copying me, in any aspect of my life. It always has and always will deeply irritate me. So imagine how fun it’s been to get messages and emails from people saying that they want advice, tips, info on how to make a site like mine, a blog like...

I still get nervous. I am asked all the time by wives that worry about those hotwife butterflies and when they can expect them to subside. Sorry, ladies but mine have yet to do so. To be honest I’m nervous from the time we figure out a time and place until 15 minutes...

  I’m a little tired of everyone pushing the envelope. I am not a fan of people who I feel like are the type that you give an inch and they take a mile; there seems to be an abundance of these types out there (especially on tinder). Like I’m 100% down for some...

The first meeting with The Ranger is just so different that I had to share. Obviously I’m a fan of this hotwife thing and there’s plenty of sexy and thrilling aspects and I try to share those often but what I’ve come to love are the random and often truly awkward...